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Meghan Markle reveals she suffered miscarriage in summer

The Duchess of Sussex has revealed she suffered a miscarriage in the summer.

In a heartbreaking personal essay for The New York Times, Meghan Markle said the tragic loss had caused her and husband Prince Harry ‘unbearable grief’.

Opening up about her experience, she said she knew she was losing her second child when she had a cramp as she changed her son Archie’s nappy in July.

She said: ‘I dropped to the floor with him in my arms, humming a lullaby to keep us both calm, the cheerful tune a stark contrast to my sense that something was not right.

‘I knew, as I clutched my firstborn child, that I was losing my second. Hours later, I lay in a hospital bed, holding my husband’s hand.

‘I felt the clamminess of his palm and kissed his knuckles, wet from both our tears. Staring at the cold white walls, my eyes glazed over. I tried to imagine how we’d heal.’

The royal said she wanted to share her experience in order to help other women with a subject that is ‘experienced by many but talked about by few’.

Shortly after the miscarriage, the duke and duchess embarked on a tour of South Africa. Meghan said she tried to keep up a ‘brave face’ in the public eye and recalled the moment when journalist Tom Bradby asked if she was okay.


The former actress replied: ‘Thank you for asking. Not many people have asked if I’m OK.’

Writing in the New York Times, she said she ‘answered him honestly, not knowing that what I said would resonate with so many’ including ‘new moms and older ones, and anyone who had, in their own way, been silently suffering’.

She said: ‘My off-the-cuff reply seemed to give people permission to speak their truth. But it wasn’t responding honestly that helped me most, it was the question itself.’

The duchess then recalled sitting in a hospital bed watching her husband’s heart break ‘as he tried to hold the shattered pieces of mine’.

She said she realised in that moment that the only way to heal was to ask herself ‘Are you OK?’.

As many people across the United States prepare to celebrate Thanksgiving without their families amid the coronavirus pandemic, Meghan has called on people to ask others if they’re okay.

People may be physically distanced but ‘the truth is that we are more connected than ever because of all we have individually and collectively endured this year’, she said.

The royal couple welcomed their first child Archie Mountbatten-Windsor in May 2019 after marrying in a ceremony at Windsor Castle the previous year.

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