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Sister of headteacher who killed herself blasts watchdog inspection

EXCLUSIVE ‘Things need to be done with Ofsted’: Sister of headteacher who killed herself blasts watchdog inspection which saw primary school downgraded to ‘inadequate’

  • Sister of headteacher Ruth Perry has said ‘things need to be done with Ofsted’ 
  • Ruth took her own life after being told Ofsted would rate her school Inadequate 
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Tragic headteacher Ruth Perry’s sister has said ‘things need to be done with Ofsted’ after the head teacher committed suicide while waiting for an inspection report.

Mrs Perry, 53, led the Caversham Primary school in Reading and took her own life two months ago after being told the school’s management was being downgraded from Outstanding to Inadequate.

Her family say she described the inspection last November as the ‘worst day of her life’ and revealed the stress she was under while waiting the report saying she was a ‘shadow of her former self’.

Speaking to MailOnline Ruth’s sister, University of Reading languages professor Julia Waters, said the family were not happy with the schools inspection body.

Mrs Perry’s sister Professor Julia Waters told MailOnline the family were not happy with the schools inspection body, saying: ‘Things need to be done with Ofsted’

Ruth Perry, 53, (pictured) led the Caversham Primary school in Reading and took her own life two months ago after being told the school’s management was being downgraded from Outstanding to Inadequate

When asked what she thought, Professor Waters said: ‘Things need to be done with Ofsted, that’s all I will say for the moment. We don’t want to say anything else for the time being. It’s been a very stressful time.’

Professor Waters has given an extensive interview to the Sunday Times and is expected to unleash a critical attack on Ofsted – the Government’s Office for Standards in Education – in the article.

Mrs Perry, who was married with children and had been principal at Caversham Primary School in Reading since 2010, took her own life in January this year believing the result was a ‘complete injustice’.

She claimed inspectors told senior staff they had seen a boy ‘flossing’ – a popular dance move with tens of millions of children around the world thanks to social media – and that this was evidence of the sexualisation of pupils at the school.

It is also alleged inspectors told teachers that they had seen child-on-child abuse – but Mrs Perry insisted it was a playground scuffle. She had been told the school was being downgraded from Outstanding to Inadequate – and killed herself while waiting for the publication of the report, her family have said. 

Julia claimed her beloved sister became ‘an absolute shadow of her former self’, she said, adding: ‘This one-word judgment is just destroying 32 years of her vocation, education was her vocation. Thirty-two years summed up in one word, Inadequate. 

‘It just preyed on her mind until she couldn’t take it anymore. She was a huge loss, she was my little sister and she was only 53, she had so much more still to give, so much more that she could do.’

Ms Perry had been headteacher of Caversham Primary School (pictured) for more than a decade when Ofsted decided to downgrade it from Outstanding to Inadequate

The headteacher had an extraordinary bond with the school, having been a pupil there. She returned in 2006 as deputy headteacher and being promoted to principal in 2010.

Mrs Perry’s sister said there is a sense of ‘complete injustice’ about the process behind the inspection and the report. 

What is ‘flossing’? And is it a ‘sexualised’ dance?

Flossing is a dance craze that swept the globe in recent years. 

The dance move involves swinging your hips and arms in different directions as if there is a piece of invisible dental floss between your legs.

At the same time the hips must move to the beat while your arms are held in two fists.

It was invented by 16-year-old social media star Russell Horning, who posted a video which went viral of him performing the dance to Katie Perry’s hit Swish Swish.

It was further popularised in the game Fortnite – but there is no evidence it is sexual. 

The inspection was the primary’s first in 13 years, after rules exempting Outstanding schools from being looked at in-depth by Ofsted were scrapped.

She told BBC South: ‘I said, ‘It can’t be that bad’, and she said, ‘Yes it is, it’s about as bad as it can be’.

‘All during that process, every time I spoke to her she would talk about the countdown. I remember clearly one day her saying ’52 days and counting’. 

‘Everyday she had this weight on her shoulders hanging over her and she wasn’t officially allowed to talk to her family. I remember the very first time I saw her rather than just speaking on the phone a couple of days after the end of the Ofsted inspection, she was an absolute shadow of her former self.’

It is claimed inspectors had decided after the first day of the two-day inspection to downgrade it, as well as making apparently unfounded claims about the sexualisation of children at the school.

Mrs Perry took her own life on January 8 this year, just over two months before the report was released, sparking an outpouring of grief from family, friends, colleagues and the school’s community.

The report, which was published this week, found the school to be Good in every category, apart from leadership and management, where it was judged to be Inadequate.

The report criticised the school for poor record keeping, with gaps in employment checks potentially putting children at risk. This dropped the entire school to an Inadequate rating, the lowest possible.

Inspectors said that ‘most pupils behave sensibly and rise to the staff’s high expectations’, adding: ‘Pupils know who to turn to if they have a worry or a problem, feeling confident that they will get the help they need. Relationships between staff and pupils are warm and supportive. Incidents of bullying are rare.’

But they added: ‘Leaders do not have the required knowledge to keep pupils safe from harm. They have not taken prompt and proper actions when pupils are at risk. They have not ensured that safeguarding is effective throughout the school.’ 

Julia says her sister (pictured together) ‘was a huge loss’ and ‘had so much more still to give’

The report states: ‘Governors have an ambitious vision for pupils and staff. However, they have not ensured that they fulfil their statutory safeguarding responsibilities. Until the inspection, they were unaware of significant weaknesses in the school’s arrangements to keep pupils safe.’

It added the school doesn’t have ‘robust processes’ to combat persistent absenteeism from some pupils and that leaders have a ‘weak understanding of safeguarding requirements and procedures’.

Matt Rodda, the Labour MP for Reading East, where the school is based, said: ‘I’ve had a meeting with the schools minister and I’ve also raised this with the regional director of Ofsted. 

‘I think it’s fair to say that there are local concerns about the way that the inspection was carried out. Also about the way that the Ofsted framework and other regulations affecting Ofsted effectively work, and the wider pressure on headteachers.’

In a statement to BBC South, Ofsted said: ‘We were deeply saddened by Ruth Perry’s tragic death. Our thoughts remain with Mrs Perry’s family, friends and everyone in the Caversham Primary School community.’

Inspectors from Ofsted said leadership and management at Caversham Primary School was Inadequate

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In a statement released after her death, her family said: ‘We are left devastated by the sudden loss of a lovely mother, wife, daughter, sister, aunt, niece, sister-in-law and friend.

‘She leaves a huge, aching gap in all our lives and, we know, in the lives of so many others who were lucky enough to know her.

‘We are grateful to all our friends for their thoughts and support now and in the difficult years ahead. Ruth will be remembered as the kind, funny, confident, vivacious, caring person she was and for all that she achieved in life. 

‘We also ask those who did not know Ruth please to respect our privacy, as we come to terms with our unfathomable grief, and to consider carefully how their words and actions might impact on others.’

‘As the many tributes to her from the broader school and Caversham community attest, Ruth cared deeply not just about academic results, but also about the general well-being and happiness of the pupils and staff whom she taught and led. 

‘Caversham Primary was a very happy school under Ruth’s leadership and, despite the many challenges that always go with the role of Head, she was happy there too.

‘Ruth was a dedicated headteacher and an excellent teacher. She loved the pupils and the staff of Caversham Primary School and was very proud to have been its headteacher for 12 years and previously deputy headteacher for four years.

‘Ruth was a force for good in her life, and we want her to be a force for positive change after her death too. 

‘We would urge anyone who has been affected by her death to talk about their feelings and know that help is available. Local and national helplines, advice and support can be found on the Reading Family Information Service website.’

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